Eternal Love

    Our togetherness has no bounds not even of touch and being together physically, but the way we have touched each other's souls, we can always define our togetherness has otherworldly meaning and it will always be ununderstandable to the world that believes in materialistic things.

    Meeting you was fate; keeping you close to my heart is a decision and having you near me physically is a prayer I always chant. The future might be unclear, and still, I am trying to manifest things alone so that the universe might listen to my prayers and let us live together forever, till eternity.

    Yes, my love for you is deeper than the materialistic world and will keep you surprised from time to time as I express it to you in different ways till eternity. I believe, if love is not deep, it's not even love. So, I am not sure if you feel lucky to have me or if you will still keep asking me the "till when?" question, my answer will never change, and my answer will always be "till eternity".

    Materialistic love may end when we die but we have touched each other's soul and my love for you will be till eternity.

    "The togetherness is beyond bonds of anything that can bond... My love starts where everything stops... My love is countless... It's flawless... It's eternal... It's magical... It's what god gifted to us... So let's go with the love we have for each other..."


Chintan Kharade

HE IS WORTHLESS THOUGH HE ISN’T

He is the person who always helps people or tries to help them with his soothing words or actions.

But, what about him? When every other person tries to seek help from him for their problems, he just goes on helping them without anything to get back.

Now, when he is disturbed due to the situations in his life, and still knows that few people just want him to help them. What he feels is, “he is just a medium for people to empty their minds, express their feelings in any possible way and after doing or while doing that, they don’t even treat him with respect which he actually deserves. They just think that whatever he does, doesn’t affect him. He doesn’t even deserve respect. He is just a person on whom one can empty the hatefulness of their lives and for other people who are actually bothering them for the situation of their mind.”

He is tired of helping people who don’t even give him space for him to deal with his own issues.

If he doesn’t deserve respect and space for himself… HE IS WORTHLESS THOUGH HE ISN’T…..

Chintan Kharade

The Walk of Life...!!

          It's not about your presence or absence in my life... It's all about my will to go further in life or not... And quoting Paulo Coelho, I would like to tell you that, "Life is short for waiting..."

          So, as the decision is yours, 'to walk with me on the path of life or not!' But surely if you are about to quit the path or choose the other companion over me... I don't have any issues because "a traveler must travel with or without company!"

          My love for walking challenging paths isn't unknown to you... So decide in time because once you are leaving (the current place) with me or leaving me, I would have been moved on by the choice you left me with...

          And I won't regret my choices of paths, because I am a globetrotter and I just walk on the path I chose to travel on...!!!

Chintan Kharade

The Better Than The Previous

Life is a journey where you meet people and leave some behind. Very few will love to accompany you on your journey, but the partner may or may not be trustworthy as you think. It might be an illusion that they have created for you for their personal gain of some kind, and you will never know unless they have accomplished their interest. And one day suddenly everything will change, you will be in a dream of some sort and then the dream will be shattered into infinite pieces, just because they are done with you.

Yes! All the above-mentioned subject is valid for all of us. It's just how we are reacting to all the unexpected scene introduced into our lives that can help us build the next version of ourselves, "The better than the previous version" or can help us destroy ourselves.

Better, we build a better version..!

Chintan Kharade

If You Quit On Your Dreams!!

Everyone in this world is fighting their battle every day, every hour, every minute, and every second. It's just a difference between every-other ones perspective towards our battles. The judgemental behavior or thinking of others doesn't or shouldn't affect our battlefield strategies and/or plans.

We must follow our hearts while fighting on our own. And if we won't, we have lost half the battle. Following our hearts is the best possible chance to be on the battlefield and win the battle of our lives. It may take a little longer sometimes, but the victory is assured better to take slightly longer than to quit.

Somewhere in our hearts, we already know how it will end. So, better follow our hearts; than follow the dumb rules of society. No one ever made a difference following the dumb society game.

People will judge you, ignore them and keep working on your dreams till the last heartbeat. Because you may be able to create an illusion of the society you live in for the sake of a dumb society game. But you'll never ever be able to face your own heart if you quit on your dreams.!!

Chintan Kharade

IT'S OKAY TO FAIL, UNLESS YOU DON'T STOP LEARNING

Sometimes you just can't win all the things the way you want. But then even if you fail, there's always a way out from negative things or thoughts getting into your brain or mind because of that failure.

One needs to develop a "learning from failures" attitude. I believe everyone is a student until their last breath and one must keep learning from failures either of someone else's failures or from failures of own.

When one develops a habit rather I would say the hobby of learning from failures, one gets to know the different ways of "how not to" do things while trying to achieve a particular thing one was or while trying to achieve.

So, keep learning and keep tackling! Always remember, "it's okay to fail unless you don't stop learning."

Chintan Kharade

Me and My Shadows

My anger is both for me... My power and my weakness too... Sad to say but my anger had given me various rewards in life as well as just snatched away many things I truly loved and wished for them or those to be with me forever...
My anger is just like a short incident... I always forget what I said to someone under influence of anger... I kept hurting people of value, some of those are still with me, who actually understood "me" and my pure intentions of good wishes for them than my "anger"... Some are there who still made me angry because of their "I don't want to change myself" attitude...
But I stopped getting angry at them... Because in Marathi there is one phrase "गाढवासमोर वाचली 'गीता' कालचा गोंधळ बरा होता." Simply means it's worthless to explain something to a foolish person... I assume a person who is still with not even minor changes as "worthless"...
"The show must go on" is my basic thinking of mine and I just don't stop for anything and keep moving further in my life... And got that I had to be under the control of my mind not under influence of my anger... So I just stopped reacting with my anger and I started reacting with a smile and actions...
And yes IT HELPS...

Chintan Kharade

Greed..??

I don't understand why people try to have everything that they want irrespective of what are the situations both inside and outside their minds...

I surely do want to achieve everything that I want to... But not irrespective of the situation... I believe in "the Almighty" and I know for sure He will give me what I deserve... What I am capable of...

I don't even go to any holy place as they say of Mandirs, Mosque, Gurudwara or Church... Nor do I pray every day... Because I know He is in my heart... He always will be... To guide me, to punish me, to pamper me, and also motivate me...

Oh "God", just be in my heart... Be my strength... And keep me away from any of the greed than doing my karma...

Amen...!!

Chintan Kharade

ONE GIRL

There are many girls around... But that 'one', she is special... Actually very very special... It's like a mutual understanding between us or something which bounds me with her...

I never even had dreamed of having that kind of mutual understanding with someone whom I barely know... Besides the other ones whom I know for a certain number of years fail to show me that understanding... I don't know what it is? But one day I'll be having answers to all of these silly questions of my mind my brain...

Oh, I should actually be thankful to other people in my life to set up an example of an ideal person who may possess the qualities of nothing else... Because love never about looked to me... It's about the bounding maid by the Almighty...

With the wish to have that one girl in my life ever and forever... I would just say "Amen!"...

Chintan Kharade

Are You Ready to Embrace The Change?

There is one very famous quote by Robin Sharma the author of 'The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari' which states, "Change is hard at first, messy in the middle and gorgeous at the end."

The quote is self-explanatory if you put enough understanding into it. Every change has to go through a lot of resistance, it's simply because of people or things being a lot comfortable with the 'current way' of working. Even if they know that the suggested changes are required and sometimes crucial for the process itself. They will resist it a lot simply because they are not ready to see the outcome or even if they are aware of the outcome, they are not ready to leave the comfort zone of current working practices. Let's call this phase as 'HARD AT FIRST' Phase.

Then there comes the second phase, let's call it the 'MESSY MIDDLE' Phase. So, once you crossed the resistance phase and try to apply the new or changed methods simply because people have to learn new things and might need some training etc for understanding how to the application of changes. People will be bit iterated and will also be trying to cope with the changes, here you need to support people to keep things under control and keep the spirit high of people and need to tell them why this process is necessary every now and then without losing you or letting anyone else their cool, and gradually things do fall in place.

Once the things are falling in place almost every time you try, you are in the last phase of change and it's called 'GORGEOUS PHASE'. This phase is the actual phase where you shall be grateful for all the hardships which you and people around you have taken for the change and now the change is actually yielding the fruits of all discomforts you have been through. 

I have tried to do some deception of a great quote in my own words and somewhat tried to explain how to deal with the different phases of the change process in the above paragraphs. But the most important thing you need to understand is, you must be ready to embrace the changes that come to you. Life is a series of events and situations where you need to change ways of working more than once and again and again as well.

So whenever life throws you in a situation, just ask yourself, "are you ready to embrace the change?"

Chintan Kharade

EFFORTS

Sometimes you don't understand, "what exactly do you want from life?" At this point, you have to stop doing whatever you are doing and give attention to this question.

You may not get an answer from the inside... But have faith in yourself, and wait, just until the time comes. Time is key for everything. Sometimes you may get screwed because of it, and sometimes a miracle happens and you just get what you want. And then the main task starts, to keep what you have.

It's easy to get something that you don't have but it's hardest to keep that consistency. You have to take efforts to achieve it of course, but you should be ready to do efforts for keeping the achieved status/thing forever with you...

I don't know who all are agree with me? But yes this is a fact.


Chintan Kharade